Welcome to Introducing: The State of Her with Keisha!
Introducing: The State of Her with Keisha
Introducing: The State of Her with Keisha
The State of Her is a podcast for women navigating through real life issues like mental health, relationships, family, money, and everything in between. Hosted by Keisha, this show is the headquarters for women entrepreneur's, who are becoming HER with honest conversations and thoughtful reflections without pretending, performing, or having it all figured out. Some episodes may feel like a therapy session. Some feel like a mirror, but all are rooted in community and truth. New episode drop every Wednesday. Press play and meet us at the headquarters beautiful! @TheStateofHerHQ
July 22, 2026

What Are You Teaching People About You?

What Are You Teaching People About You?
Introducing: The State of Her with Keisha
What Are You Teaching People About You?

In this episode of The State of Her with Keisha. It’s an honest conversation about the silent messages we send through our habits, boundaries, and behavior. Whether it’s always saying yes, avoiding difficult conversations, or accepting less than you deserve, people often learn how to treat us by what we consistently allow.

Keisha says this isn’t about blaming yourself for someone else’s actions either, it’s about recognizing the power you have to change the patterns that no longer serve you.

We’ll explore:

* Why people respond to patterns more than words

* The difference between kindness and self-abandonment

* How boundaries communicate your value

* The hidden cost of people-pleasing

* How to stop teaching others that your needs come last

If you’ve ever wondered why the same situations keep showing up in your relationships, friendships, or workplace, this episode will challenge you to look inward and empower you to make a change.

Because the way people experience you starts with the standards you consistently set.

Tune in, reflect, and remember: you have the right to teach people a new way to treat you.

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